| No. 20 · Thursday, 1st October 2026 |
For those who care from a distance |
Kareverse, Bangalore |
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Newsletter
Elder care intelligence for NRI families with parents in Bangalore
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Feature Essay
The Paper That Stops Working When You Need It Most
Somewhere in a drawer in Bangalore there is probably a Power of Attorney with your family's name on it. Most of us have never read it. We simply trust that it means someone can step in if a parent can't manage something themselves. That trust has three important limits, and the first becomes especially important if a parent loses decision-making capacity. A Power of Attorney can be useful. It is not a substitute for planning for that day.
7.4%
of Indians aged 60+ were estimated to be living with dementia in a nationally representative LASI-based study. A diagnosis alone doesn't settle the legal question of capacity, but it is often when that question starts to matter.
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"A standard Power of Attorney is not designed to solve the problem of a parent who has lost decision-making capacity."
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Ask most NRI families whether they have a Power of Attorney sorted for their parents and the answer is a relieved yes. A cousin has one for the bank. An uncle signed something years ago for the flat. It sits in a folder, and the folder is a kind of comfort: if something happens, someone local can act. Very few of us have ever read what that paper actually allows, or thought about when it stops working.
A Power of Attorney is simply a document in which one person (the principal, usually your parent) authorises another (the agent, often a sibling, a relative, or you) to act on their behalf. A General Power of Attorney gives broad authority across many matters: bank accounts, rent, tax filings, dealing with offices. A Special Power of Attorney is limited to named tasks, such as operating one account or handling one property. Both are useful tools. But neither does everything families quietly assume it does.
It isn't built for a loss of capacity. This is the limit almost nobody knows about. Under Indian agency law, a Power of Attorney is generally tied to the principal's capacity: Section 201 of the Indian Contract Act provides that an agency is terminated when the principal "becomes of unsound mind," subject to exceptions recognised by law. India does not have a general statutory equivalent of the durable or lasting Power of Attorney used in the UK and some US states, which is specifically designed to keep operating after the person who signed it loses capacity. Dementia is one reason this becomes a real issue, but a diagnosis by itself does not answer the legal question; a person in the earlier stages may still be capable of many decisions. The important point is that a standard PoA should not be treated as a general solution for managing a parent's affairs once they no longer have the decision-making capacity the law requires. When that happens, families often face a slow, stressful court process to have someone appointed to act.
It is not a medical decision-maker. A PoA drafted to handle property, banking or administrative affairs should not be assumed to give the holder a general authority to make healthcare or end-of-life decisions. In practice, hospitals in India turn to close family for consent. For decisions about refusing or withdrawing life-sustaining treatment, in the circumstances recognised by the Supreme Court, the relevant instrument is an Advance Medical Directive, commonly called a living will, under the Court's 2018 Common Cause judgment. In January 2023 the Court made the procedure more workable: it is now signed in the presence of two attesting witnesses and attested before a notary or gazetted officer, instead of the earlier Judicial Magistrate requirement. It applies to a narrow situation (terminal illness or a state with no realistic hope of recovery, when your parent cannot speak for themselves), and it lets them name the person they trust to speak for them. It is a separate document, for a separate job, and not a general medical power of attorney.
It does not transfer property by itself. A Power of Attorney lets someone act; it does not transfer ownership. The Supreme Court has repeatedly held this, most notably in Suraj Lamp & Industries v. State of Haryana (2011): a GPA is not a conveyance of title, and a "GPA sale" is not a valid substitute for a registered sale deed. An agent can sign a sale deed on your parent's behalf only if the Power of Attorney specifically authorises it, and the deed itself must still be properly registered, subject to the applicable registration and other legal requirements.
None of this is a reason to panic. It is a reason to open the folder. The families who get caught out are rarely the ones without paperwork. They are the ones whose paperwork was written for a different problem, and who find out in a hospital corridor or a bank manager's office that the document they were relying on doesn't cover the moment they are in.
And there is a practical truth underneath all of it: these documents depend on your parent having the legal capacity to understand what they are signing and to sign it voluntarily. If capacity is already in question, getting advice sooner rather than later matters.
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Also in this edition
"The families who get caught out are rarely the ones without paperwork."
They are the ones whose paperwork was written for a different problem: a banking PoA that was never meant for a hospital, or a property PoA nobody checked against Karnataka's 2025 rules.
Open the folder now, while your parents can take part in fixing it.
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● The Bangalore Lens
What's happening locally, right now
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In Karnataka, the rules changed in 2025. A Power of Attorney that authorises transferring property must now be registered.
If your parents own property in Bangalore, one change deserves particular attention. The Registration (Karnataka Amendment) Act, 2025 inserted a new Section 17(1)(f) into the Registration Act, making a Power of Attorney authorising the transfer of immovable property, with or without consideration, compulsorily registrable in Karnataka. The Act came into force on 13 August 2025. It also tightened the rules on relying on a PoA for registration: Section 33 now requires proof that the person who executed the PoA is alive, in the manner prescribed by the rules.
For NRIs and parents abroad, there is a separate framework. Section 33 of the Registration Act recognises a PoA from a principal who does not reside in India when it is executed and authenticated through specified routes, including before a Notary Public or an Indian Consul or Vice-Consul. Separately, under Section 18 of the Karnataka Stamp Act, an instrument executed outside India may generally be stamped within three months after it is first received in Karnataka.
The practical upshot is simple: if your parents have an old, unregistered PoA that authorises someone to transfer their flat or other property, don't assume it can still be relied upon today. Have the actual document reviewed by a Karnataka property lawyer before anyone tries to use it, and fix it while your parents can take part. Our Active Age community hears this story often: the paperwork nobody looked at until the day it was needed.
The legal advice has to come from a lawyer. But the running around is where most families stall, and that is what Genie is for. Genie's Get It Sorted gathers the scattered papers into one organised file, books the lawyer or notary appointment, and makes sure a copy of any living will actually reaches your parent's regular hospital and doctor rather than a drawer. Genie's Go With Them accompanies your parent to the lawyer's office or the sub-registrar, waits with them through the queue, and sends you a clear note of what was done and what is still pending.
A Genie never touches your parent's money, never asks for a PIN, never transacts, and never signs anything on their behalf. It is simply the steady help you would give yourself, if you were here. The things you'd do for your parents, if you were here.
You can't sit in the sub-registrar's queue from another country. But you can make sure the papers are right, and that someone is there with your parents when they sign.
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2025
the year Karnataka made registration compulsory for a Power of Attorney authorising the transfer of immovable property, with or without consideration. In force since 13 August 2025.
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● One Thing To Do
This week
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Action
Do this week
Open the Folder
If you are flying home for Dussehra or Diwali, this is the most useful afternoon you can spend with a lawyer and your parents. If you aren't, it can start on a phone call this week.
1. Find and read what already exists. Ask who holds a Power of Attorney for your parents, for what, and where the original is. Read the actual wording. Does it cover the bank? The flat? Is it registered?
2. Check it against what your family actually needs. Banking and bills, property, pensions and tax are separate jobs. A narrow Special PoA for each named task is usually safer than a broad General PoA that can be misused.
3. Talk about the medical side separately. If your parents would want a say in end-of-life care, an Advance Medical Directive is the recognised route. Have the conversation first, then the paperwork: what would they want, and whom do they trust to speak for them?
4. Act while capacity isn't in doubt. Every document here depends on your parent having the legal capacity to understand what they are signing and to sign it voluntarily. If memory is starting to slip, get advice this month, not someday.
5. Get a Karnataka lawyer to review it. Registration rules for property PoAs changed in August 2025, and documents signed abroad follow their own authentication and stamping rules. This is no longer a do-it-yourself document, and a one-hour consultation is far cheaper than a court process later.
The folder in the drawer is only a comfort if it says what you think it says. Reading it once, this month, is how you find out.
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● From The Blog
Further reading on kareverse.com
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The most important document in all of this cannot be notarised. It is the conversation where you sit with your parents and ask: "If you couldn't speak for yourself one day, what would you want, and who should speak for you?" It is an uncomfortable question, and most families put it off until a hospital asks it for them. But asked now, over tea, while everyone is well, it turns a folder of papers into a plan your parents actually chose. No court can give you that later. You can only ask for it while there is still time.
The Kin Letter, Edition 20 · Thursday, 1st October 2026
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Sources: Agency and capacity: Indian Contract Act, 1872, Section 201 (agency terminated when the principal dies or becomes of unsound mind), subject to exceptions including Section 202 (agency where the agent has an interest in the subject matter); Powers-of-Attorney Act, 1882, Section 3 (protection of certain acts done in good faith without knowledge of the donor's death or unsoundness of mind). India has no general statutory durable or lasting power of attorney. Dementia prevalence: Lee J et al., "Prevalence of dementia in India: National and state estimates from a nationwide study," Alzheimer's & Dementia, 2023 (LASI-DAD, data collected 2017 to 2020): an estimated 7.4% of Indians aged 60+, roughly 8.8 million people; figure also cited by the Government of India in the Lok Sabha. Advance Medical Directive: Common Cause v. Union of India (Supreme Court, 2018), procedure modified by the Constitution Bench order of 24 January 2023 (two attesting witnesses; attestation before a notary or gazetted officer; Judicial Magistrate requirement removed). GPA and title: Suraj Lamp & Industries Pvt. Ltd. v. State of Haryana (Supreme Court, 2011). Karnataka: Registration (Karnataka Amendment) Act, 2025 (Karnataka Act No. 42 of 2025; assent 22 July 2025, published 28 July 2025, in force 13 August 2025), new Section 17(1)(f) and amended Section 33(4) (proof that the executant is alive, as prescribed by the rules); Registration Act, 1908, Section 33(1)(c) (principal not residing in India). Stamping: Karnataka Stamp Act, 1957, Section 18 (instruments executed outside India may be stamped within three months after first being received in Karnataka). And Genie by Kareverse (kareverse.com/genie). This letter is general information, not legal advice; any Power of Attorney or Advance Medical Directive should be drafted or reviewed by a qualified lawyer.
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